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‘Berapa?’

I was on an ‘ojek online’ (motorcycle taxi) heading to a hotel my friends stayed in, we plan to hang out. As I passed this intersection with you know, ‘mas-mas’ that ‘help’ car passing through, they were howling at me as if I am an object. After I arrived, me and my friends decided to … Continued

Wajar dari mana?

Saya pindah ke komplek apartemen ini 6 bulan yang lalu, dan ini bukan pertama kali saya alami catcalling di komplek apartemen ini, but this one is the worst of all. Kejadian hari sekitar satu bulan lalu, jam pulang kerja. Saya baru keluar dari mall setelah belanja di farmers market dan jalan ke arah tower tempat … Continued

Korban penipuan

Beberapa hari yang lau saya menjadi korban penipuan melalui salah satu media chat online. Seseorang yang mengaku-ngaku sebagai salah satu teman dekat saya yang seorang dokter menghubungi saya. Terlihat dari informasi dan foto profilnya, sampai dengan cara bicara dia saat menghubungi saya sangat meyakinkan dan membuat saya menjdai percaya bahwa itu betul teman saya. Lalu … Continued

“Bantuannya”

Saya seorang mahasiswi, sebulan yang lalu saya pulang kampung. Seperi biasa, saya naik bus dari terminal kamp. Rambutan. Disitu saya bergegas untuk naik ke dalam bus, namun ada kenek bus yang menghalangi gagang yang ada di depan pintu. Dia mengulurkan tangannya, saya kira memang dia berniat untuk menolong dan saya tidak ada pikiran buruk apapun … Continued

Catcall = Menyebalkan

Kemarin saya jalan kaki di jalan pangeran antasari. Dalam waktu 5 menit, saya di-catcall 3 kali oleh laki2 dari 3 mobil. Mereka suit, mereka ketawa, mereka ngomong gak gelas. MENYEBALKAN! Kenapa saya gak bisa jalan kaki tanpa pengalaman begini?

Sick of being harassed

I had a guy on a motorbike pull up in front of me on the wrong side of the road and just stare at me. I sensed something was wrong so I grabbed my bag and as I went to walk past him, I noticed he had his penis out and was masturbating while staring … Continued

Early morning run

I was on an early morning run this past Saturday just outside of the Puri Bintaro complex. I was running through a small village on the way to the Bintaro Xchange when a young man (20s-30s) started running alongside me wearing jeans and a ballcap. I was initially polite and asked him to stop running … Continued

Catcalling just never seems to end

I just want to bring attention to the make shift pedestrian way on Jl. Thamrin (just past the Japanese Embassy). The area for pedestrians is NARROW and DARK, and the construction workers are unrelentless with their CATCALLING. I just experienced this today as I was walking back to work from Plaza Indonesia. Lots of friends … Continued

Saat masih SMP

Kejadian ini saat saya masih SMP. Hari itu Sabtu atau Minggu, saya, mama, papa, dan adek saya sedang mau jogging pagi-pagi. Setelah jogging beberapa putaran di taman situ, saya dan adek saya memutuskan untuk bermain ayunan sambil menunggu mama dan papa saya selesai olahraga. Tiba2 ada bapak-bapak yang mondar mandir di depan kami sambil senyum2, … Continued

The catcallers are angry

Almost everyday I go from student housing complex to i3L campus (which is only 6 minutes walk) I get catcalled. This catcalling not only makes me feel uncomfortable and not safe, but also makes me feel degraded, ruins my mood every morning and makes me so so angry. For the fact that I just want … Continued