Category: Verbal

Wahh

I know that the title may seem funny since I don’t know what to write, BUT, my story is not as funny as the title. So it was 6 to 7 months ago. I worked at a famous 5 star hotel. A guy who is in the same section as me  (but we’re in a … Continued

‘Berapa?’

I was on an ‘ojek online’ (motorcycle taxi) heading to a hotel my friends stayed in, we plan to hang out. As I passed this intersection with you know, ‘mas-mas’ that ‘help’ car passing through, they were howling at me as if I am an object. After I arrived, me and my friends decided to … Continued

Wajar dari mana?

Saya pindah ke komplek apartemen ini 6 bulan yang lalu, dan ini bukan pertama kali saya alami catcalling di komplek apartemen ini, but this one is the worst of all. Kejadian hari sekitar satu bulan lalu, jam pulang kerja. Saya baru keluar dari mall setelah belanja di farmers market dan jalan ke arah tower tempat … Continued

Catcall = Menyebalkan

Kemarin saya jalan kaki di jalan pangeran antasari. Dalam waktu 5 menit, saya di-catcall 3 kali oleh laki2 dari 3 mobil. Mereka suit, mereka ketawa, mereka ngomong gak gelas. MENYEBALKAN! Kenapa saya gak bisa jalan kaki tanpa pengalaman begini?

Early morning run

I was on an early morning run this past Saturday just outside of the Puri Bintaro complex. I was running through a small village on the way to the Bintaro Xchange when a young man (20s-30s) started running alongside me wearing jeans and a ballcap. I was initially polite and asked him to stop running … Continued

Catcalling just never seems to end

I just want to bring attention to the make shift pedestrian way on Jl. Thamrin (just past the Japanese Embassy). The area for pedestrians is NARROW and DARK, and the construction workers are unrelentless with their CATCALLING. I just experienced this today as I was walking back to work from Plaza Indonesia. Lots of friends … Continued

The catcallers are angry

Almost everyday I go from student housing complex to i3L campus (which is only 6 minutes walk) I get catcalled. This catcalling not only makes me feel uncomfortable and not safe, but also makes me feel degraded, ruins my mood every morning and makes me so so angry. For the fact that I just want … Continued

Gotta SCREAM at them

Gotta SCREAM at them Setiap hari saya ke kantor buat magang. Dan ada konstruksi di area pertigaan di SCBD. Dan seringkali, orang orang bangunan tersebut bulak balik buat melaksanakan tugasnya (I understand this), tapi ada beberapa insiden yang saya alami disini: 1. Dua orang narik truk berhenti di depan saya ketika makan siang dan berkata … Continued

Punched him

Setiap pagi emang terbiasa untuk olahraga dan hari ini baru aja abis lari pagi dan ada laki laki tua ngikutin naik motor, like ketemu papasan 4 kali padahal aku lari di area yang sama dan ngelilingi area itu 6 kali, which is keliatan bgt orang ini ngikutin kemana aku lari, and whenever I saw him, … Continued

Ingin melawan

Pelecehan yang saya dapatkan merupakan kombinasi dari pelecehan verbal, sentuhan-sentuhan yang tidak saya inginkan (walaupun bukan di bagian intim), dan intensi yang dikatakan dengan jelas untuk melakukan sebuah perbuatan yang menurut saya tidak pantas dilakukan. Saat pelecehan tersebut terjadi, sebagai korban saya merasa tidak berdaya dan sangat panik. Di dalam pikiran saya ingin melawan tetapi … Continued